Community Guidelines

Itsme is the fastest way to meet your new best friends from across the universe. We created these Community Guidelines to support our mission by encouraging the broadest range of self-expression while making sure Itsme Members can use our services safely every day.

The guidelines below apply to all Itsme content – and to all Itsme Members. Partners must adhere to additional guidelines, including that their content is accurate and if necessary, fact-checked.

In a nutshell...

Be nice. Be respectful.

Itsme is a space for you to have fun and meet new people that share common interests. Since Itsme is an app where you talk to real people in real time, the application cannot regulate the topics that are discussed. However, in the spirit of creating a safe and friendly environment for all, there are certain behaviors that are prohibited.

Sexually Explicit Content

We prohibit users that promote, request, or distribute sexually explicit content. We report child sexual exploitation to the authorities. Don’t share or send nudity or sexually explicit content to Itsme Members under the age of 18 – even of yourself.

Scamming, Paypal, Venmo, Cashapp, Money Exchanges

We prohibit any type of scamming, asking for money, or planning to carry out monetary exchanges. We report suspicious behavior like this to the authorities. Please don't request the usernames of anyone on Paypal, Venmo, Cashapp, or similar apps.

Harassment & Bullying

We prohibit bullying and harassment of any kind. Don’t match with someone with the intention of making that person feel bad. If someone blocks you, or you cannot reach them, don’t try to add them using a new account. Don’t share personal information about other users who you have met on Itsme or know in-person.

Threats, Violence & Harm

Using language that condones or encourages violence is prohibited. Using language that is discriminatory to any group(s) of people is prohibited. Impersonation, Deceptive Practices & False Information Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not — including impersonating another person, celebrities, brands or organizations. Trying to deceive others about who you are is not allowed. We prohibit spreading false information.

Illegal Content

Don’t use Itsme for any illegal content – including to buy or sell drugs, contraband, counterfeit goods, or illegal weapons.

Terrorism, Hate Groups, and Hate Speech

Terrorist organizations are prohibited from using Itsme and we will delete all accounts that promote, advance or advocate for terrorist groups and extremism. Hate speech or content that attempts to belittle, diminish or make fun of other members is prohibited. Speech that aims to belittle, diminish, make fun of or promote discrimination or violence on members based on their race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, religion, nationality, age, language affiliation, disability, veteran status, socio-economic status, or weight is prohibited.

Self-Promotion / Spam

Don't use Itsme to serially message people self promoting your social media, company, products, or anything else that can be considered self promotion. Itsme is an app for finding the people you fit with best, not for spamming people with advertisements or irrelevant messages.

If you experience behavior that makes you uncomfortable or is considered “prohibited behavior” as outlined above, you can report the offending user. This can be done after each call ends and after you rate the user, or by emailing us at or contacting us via Twitter direct message. Itsme has a dedicated team of moderators who review reports and enforce the Community Guidelines.

If you violate the Community Guidelines, we reserve the right to terminate your account. If your account is terminated because you have violated the Community Guidelines or Terms of Service, you cannot use Itsme again.

We reserve the right to update the Community Guidelines at any time.